You Are Someone Who:

Values harmony in your relationships.
Displays goodwill toward others.
Is a great party organizer.
Is the perfect host.
Is very family-oriented.

If You Are Female, Your Best Matches Are:
ESFJs: Dutiful Hosts
ESTJs: Traditionalists

If You Are Male, Your Best Matches Are:
ESFJs: Dutiful Hosts
ISFJs: Caretakers

If You Want to Win the Heart of Your Ideal Mate, Do the Following:
For ESFJs:

*Help your perfect host plan a party, wedding, or bar mitzvah.
*If you're planning the date, fill them in on the details and make sure you don't deviate from your schedule (unless you give them plenty of notice).
*Talk about everyday topics such as the latest trends in fashion, finances, or entertainment.
*If you invite your ESFJ over, make sure your home is neat, tidy, and aesthetically pleasing.
*Join your ESFJ on social outings to restaurants, nightclubs, comedy clubs, and anywhere else people are enjoying themselves.

For ISFJs:

*Show as much caring, tenderness, and respect as you possibly can.
*Express your gentle, family side: talk about the kid brother you love or the eccentric uncle you adore.
*Woo your ISFJ with good, old-fashioned courtship; giving and receiving flowers and candy, taking long walks along the beach, and cuddling by the fireplace.
*Go slow with them, especially in the area of sex.

For ESTJs:

*Keep the conversation practical and down-to-earth.
*Let your ESTJ decide where to go and what to do on dates; then join him or her for the ride.
*Avoid excessive sentimentality and a "touchy feely" attitude--keep it real and straightforward.
*Express your interest, affection, and loyalty in practical ways such as buying groceries and cooking for your date.
*Spend time with their family and friends and become a part of their inner circle.